I'm Gay and Why I would visit Russia again?

By Andrescoto87 - August 21, 2019

LGTB life in Russia


Russia is really controversial when talking about LGBT rights and is a Tabu among many gays who think that the Russian government penalizes same-sex relations.

I'm gay and I had the opportunity to travel to Russia twice and in both cases was during the spring of 2017 and 2018 prior to the World Cup celebrated there.

Russia and LGTB Rights

It's important to approach discussions about LGBTQ+ rights in Russia with an awareness of the complex and controversial context surrounding the issue.

Russia has indeed been a subject of concern and criticism from the international LGBTQ+ community and human rights organizations due to its laws and policies regarding homosexuality. The law you mentioned, often referred to as the "anti-propaganda law," was passed in 2013 and bans the promotion of non-traditional sexual relationships to minors. Critics argue that this law has been used to suppress LGBTQ+ activism and visibility in the country.

While President Vladimir Putin has stated that the Russian government does not have anything against LGBTQ+ individuals, it's essential to consider the practical impact of the law and the broader social attitudes in Russia. LGBTQ+ rights activists argue that it has led to an increase in discrimination and violence against LGBTQ+ people, and they often face societal prejudice.

It's also worth noting that LGBTQ+ individuals in positions of power or influence may have a different experience compared to the general population. Public figures may be more protected or have the resources to navigate the complexities of the situation differently.

Traveling to Russia as an LGBTQ+ individual can vary in terms of experience and safety depending on various factors, including the location within the country and individual circumstances. It's crucial to research and be aware of the local attitudes and legal environment before visiting any foreign country.

Overall, discussions about LGBTQ+ rights in Russia should be nuanced, considering both the official government stance and the lived experiences of LGBTQ+ individuals in the country.



The reference to Elton John's music career and his relative acceptance in Russia despite his criticism is a reflection of the dual perspectives that often exist in these situations. While some may appreciate and celebrate Elton John's artistic contributions, there can still be significant disagreements and tensions related to LGBTQ+ rights and expressions, particularly in the context of his film "Rocketman."

But as the Law prohibits any propaganda these scenes have to be blocked, the Russian government also blocks scenes where people are smoking since they are trying to decrease tobacco consumption (Tobacco Control Law).

Also, Vladimir Putin states why Western media tries to demonize Russia when there are some states in the USA where the Law is not clear when it comes to LGBT rights even though same-sex marriage is allowed in all states (Gay Rights in the US, state by state). 

Therefore, LGTB Propaganda is not allowed, but that does not mean that LGTB relations are penalized in Russia.

LGBT Life in Russia


In the largest Russian cities, such as Moscow and Saint Petersburg—cities I've personally visited—there exists a vibrant LGBT community with bars, saunas, and welcoming spaces. These venues may not be apparent from the outside, but once you step inside, you might be pleasantly surprised to see the LGBT flag proudly displayed.

I experienced this firsthand in Saint Petersburg when I was searching for a recommended sauna online. From the exterior, it appeared like any other establishment, but as I rang the doorbell and entered, I was greeted by the LGBT flag, inside, it felt like a completely different world, with men openly expressing affection and enjoying themselves.

However, it's crucial to note that this openness in certain places doesn't guarantee that you won't encounter discrimination or potential harm due to your LGBT identity. Similar situations can occur in the USA, Europe, and even in my home country of El Salvador, where same-sex marriage remains a contentious issue, although it may not garner as much attention in the media as it does in Russia.

Recommendations for Visiting Russia


LGBT life is more visible and accessible in larger cities like Moscow, Saint Petersburg, and perhaps Yekaterinburg. However, in rural areas or smaller towns without exposure to diverse cultures, you may face challenges, as in any place where such exposure is limited.

Upon arriving in Moscow, I opened Grindr and received safety recommendations, as it does in my home country in certain instances. These precautions are relevant in other areas, including the USA, as danger can be encountered anywhere, and our personal safety is our responsibility.

When venturing to unfamiliar places, whether it's your first time or not, consider leaving valuables like credit cards and excessive cash behind. Carry only what's necessary for your trip and a small emergency fund.

If you're traveling solo, inform someone back home, even if they are far away, so they can check in on you once you return or, if you trust someone locally, share your plans with them.

Lastly, keep your personal information handy in case of an emergency, which can also be useful in the event of a natural disaster.

Conclusion


Despite the considerations and potential risks, I would gladly return to Russia. My visits to Moscow and Saint Petersburg were immensely enjoyable, and although risks exist everywhere, they are comparable to those in my own country and around the world. Traveling offers the opportunity to appreciate a remarkable country.

Russian people are generally kind and eager to assist. Attempting to learn their language can enhance your interactions. Russian is a beautiful language, and even acquiring a few phrases can broaden your horizons.

I personally know a few words in Russian, and it greatly aided me, despite not achieving fluency. I look forward to learning more and continuing my linguistic journey. This last Friday, June 12th it was Russia Day and I made a video to celebrate it. I hope you like it.



I'm and Why I would visit Russia again?






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3 comments

  1. This story shows how amazing you are and how you guys enjoy traveling around the world. Russia is not an exception in this case.

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  2. I generally chuckle at this one. A great many people who meet me will never realize that I am gay, since I don't possess all the necessary qualities. Gay PNP

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